Anger can lead to Verbal & Physical Abuse
Anger can lead to Verbal & Physical Abuse
This video is a 3 part series about anger all in one. This video is a remake of an old video. Originally posted June 24, 2010! Remade 8/10/22.
In the 1st Part I will review the scriptures about anger, & give advice according to the scriptures on how to deal with anger.
When you are quick to get angry, you may also be a verbal abuser or/ & physical abuser.
So in Part 2 I will review the scriptures about verbal abuse & Part 3 Physical abuse.
There are some interpretations, groups or congregations that believe it is ok to physically abuse your wife. I do not know what scripture they could use to validate this, but I will go over the scriptures that speaks against it. Woman are not the only ones who suffer from physical abuse, but animals, children & men are abused by those who are quick to get angry.
Know the scriptures to arm yourself, so the devil doesn’t take advantage of you. If you’re an abuser, get help. The first step is admitting you have a problem & repenting. If your being abused, get help also. What good are you dead?
ABOUT ANGER:
Proverbs 29:22
An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression
Proverbs 17:28
Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
Proverbs 21:1
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than a contentious and an angry woman.
Proverbs 27:3
A stone is heavy, and the sand weighty; but a fool’s wrath is heavier than them both.
Sirach 10:18
Pride was not made for men, nor furious anger them that are born of a woman.
Sirach. 30:24
Envy & wrath shorten the life, and carefulness bringeth age before the time.
ADVICE DEALING WITH AN ANGRY PERSON:
Proverbs 22:24
Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:
24 Lest thou learn his ways, & get a snare to thy soul.
Sirach 8:16
Strive not with an angry man, and go not with him into a solitary place: for blood is as nothing in his sight, and where there is no help, he will overthrow thee.
If you know someone has a problem with getting angry, why would you stir him up? Remember..
Proverbs 15:1
A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
TO THOSE WHO GET ANGER:
Psalms 37:8
Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.
Ecclesiastes 7:9
Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.
Proverbs 14:1
He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly: and a man of wicked devices is hated.
If your watching this video & your quick to get anger, remember that Yahuah is slow to anger, we should strive to be the same way.
Psalms 103:8
Yahuah is merciful and gracious, slow to anger & plenteous in mercy
Proverbs 16:32
He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.
Proverbs 16:23
23The heart of the wise teacheth his mouth, & addeth learning to his lips.
24 PLEASANT WORDS are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, & health to the bones.
Pleasant words are health to the bones, then evil words must do the opposite
Proverbs 15:4
4AWHOLESOME TONGUE is a TREE OF LIFE: but PERVERSENESS therein is a BREACH IN THE SPIRIT.
Proverbs 10:11
The mouth of a righteous man is a well of life: but VIOLENCE COVERETH THE MOUTH OF THE WICKED.
Proverbs 13:2
A man shall eat good by the fruit of his mouth: but the SOUL OF THE TRANSGRESSORS shall EAT VIOLENCE.
Proverbs 6:12
12A naughty person, a wicked man, walketh with a froward mouth.
Proverbs 15:28
The heart of the righteous studieth to answer: but the mouth of the wicked poureth out evil things.
Proverbs 18:
6A FOOL’S LIPS enter into CONTENTION, & his mouth calleth for STROKES.
7A fool’s mouth is his destruction, & his lips are the snare of his soul.
Instruction & Wise Words
Psalms 32:
9Be ye not as the horse, or as the mule, which have no understanding: whose mouth must be held in with bit & bridle, lest they come near unto thee.
Proverbs 4:24
Put away from thee a froward mouth, & perverse lips put far from thee.
Proverbs 13:3
He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
Proverbs 4:24 Put away from thee a froward mouth, & perverse lips put far from thee.
Proverbs 17:28
Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: & he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding
PHYSICAL ABUSE
Proverbs 13:24
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
Proverbs 22:15
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
Deuteronomy 27:
[24] Cursed be he that smiteth his neighbour secretly. And all the people shall say, Amen.
Proverbs 6:12-15
12 A naughty person, a WICKED MAN, walketh with a froward mouth.
13He winketh with his eyes, he SPEAKETH WITH HIS FEET, he TEACHETH WITH HIS FINGERS; (slaps a woman or kicks a woman for example)
14Frowardness is in his heart, he deviseth mischief continually; he soweth discord.
15Therefore shall his calamity come suddenly; suddenly shall he be broken without remedy.
Psalm 37:11
But the meek shall inherit the earth; & shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace.
Psalms 76: 8
Thou didst cause judgment to be heard from heaven; the earth feared, and was still,
9 When Yahuah arose to judgment, to save all the meek of the earth.
Psalm 147:6
Yahuah lifteth up the meek: he casteth the wicked down to the ground.
Zephaniah 2:3
Seek ye Yahuah, all ye meek of the earth, which have wrought his judgment; seek righteousness, seek meekness: it may be ye shall be hid in the day of Yahuah’s anger.
ADVICE TO THOSE WHO DO PHYSICAL HARM
Sirach 4:30
Be not as a lion in thy house, nor frantick among thy servants.
THIS IS THE LAW IF YOU DO ANY PHYSICAL HARM TO SOMEONE
Exodus 21:
[18] And if men strive together, and one smite another with a stone, or with his fist, and he die not, but keepeth his bed:
[19] If he rise again, and walk abroad upon his staff, then shall he that smote him be quit: only he shall pay for the loss of his time, and shall cause him to be thoroughly healed.
[22] If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman’s husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine.
[23] And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life,
[24] Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot,
[25] Burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.
[26] And if a man smite the eye of his bondman, or the eye of his bondwoman, that it perish; he shall let him go free for his eye’s sake.
[27] And if he smite out his bondman’s tooth, or his bondwoman’s tooth; he shall let him go free for his tooth’s sake.